When to Give Up

Some dreams are meant to be just that, dreams. 

Knowing when to quit is as important as perseverance. Going after something that feels futile will just prolong disappointment and heartache, preventing you from moving on to possibly greater things.

3 Signs It's Okay To Be A Quitter

1. You’ve Fallen out of Love

There’s so much heart that goes into pursuing your dreams. If you could no longer feel enthused in continuing the journey, maybe it’s time to change destinations. Difficulties are part of any pursuit, but they should be met with anticipation—not substantial dread.

2. ‘Should’ Becomes Your Justification

When you invest a lot of time and effort, it makes sense why you would feel guilty if you want to stop. Many people will have their own opinions, and you fear the shame that might come with taking what seems like the easy way out. “You should stay on and see what happens!” “You should continue further, you’ve come this far!” Well, you should let go of unattainable expectations and do what you want. 

3. It Becomes Your Identity

   Ambition is only one part of who you are. You’re still a full person, no matter what you decide to do. Sure, feeling lost is not pleasant, but new passions will find you eventually. It’s alright to just exist for a moment. Do not tie your entire self-worth to what you can achieve.