Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
- louisgoh8
- May 29
- 2 min read
You’re not an imposter. You just have the inherent need to be good enough.
It’s easy to get caught up in the pursuit of perfection, especially in the workplace. You’re constantly battling with competition, whether it’s with your colleagues or yourself. And it gets to the point where you wonder if you're even good at what you do. Many of us face that internal struggle, but it doesn't define our worth or abilities.
Practice Mindfulness
When you notice feelings of self-doubt or self-criticism arising, take a moment to acknowledge them. Reflect on their source by journaling your thoughts and emotions. This process will help you understand and process these feelings, making it easier to release them.
Focus on Facts
These feelings often stem from fear, such as struggling to adjust to a new job or doubting your ability to generate ideas. Remind yourself of your qualifications and achievements. Keep a record of positive feedback and successful projects to reflect the hard work you’ve put in.
Talk to Someone
If self-reflection doesn’t ease your feelings, reach out to trusted loved ones. Sometimes, hearing reassurance from others can provide the comfort and perspective you need to remind yourself that you’re doing just fine.
Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
Constant comparisons can damage your confidence over time. It's easy to admire others' achievements while overlooking your own. Instead of falling into this pattern, try to reframe your perspective. Remind yourself that your colleagues are not achieving anything beyond your own potential, and you can learn from their successes. Viewing others' accomplishments as opportunities for growth fosters collaboration and helps you improve together.
Anticipate Your Fears
There are times when you can just sense you’re not going to have an easy day or week because of a specific event occurring. For instance, a performance review is approaching, and reflecting on your achievements—or areas for improvement is bringing your confidence down. It would be the time to revisit your record of positive feedback to remind yourself of your accomplishments.
Celebrate Your Achievements
Imposter syndrome often leads to downplaying your successes. Instead of directing your energy toward self-criticism, focus on treating yourself with kindness. Allow yourself to feel joy and pride when you achieve your goals or contribute to the success of others. You deserve to recognize and celebrate the positive impact you make.
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